How I avoided burning down my house 🔥
It occurred to me a few weeks ago that I've been in my current home for a DECADE. This is the longest I've lived ANYWHERE since my childhood home, and y'all ... the accumulation of ✨stuff✨ really proves it. Earlier this summer, I had planned to do a remodel of my primary bathroom. I was working with Dani from Inspired Interiors (who is LOVELY, HIGHLY RECOMMEND, EVERYONE GO HIRE HER) when I had a complete fucking nervous breakdown over the sheer amount of prep work that is required for a...
9 days ago • 4 min readWe're working to LIVE ✨
We lost Dolly Parton last week, which truly feels like the end of an era. The woman was an icon, and for good reason: She was a once-in-a-lifetime talent (she claims to have written Jolene and I Will Always Love You on the SAME DAY); she was a genuinely good human (she founded the Imagination Library, which has gifted over 300 million books to children across five countries over the last three decades); AND she was a ton of fun (have you seen her wigs??). When you're that kind of rare triple...
23 days ago • 5 min readFETCH ME MY TIN FOIL HAT!
We need to have a conversation about the conversation about AI. Because where is the nuance?? If you haven't figured it out by now, I am vehemently against the tech industry's push to make AI happen. Not because I think AI is inherently bad — I'm pretty sure I've talked in a previous newsletter (or maybe on Threads? idk I yap a lot) about how AI is just a tool, like anything else, and it's up to humans to figure out how to use it responsibly. But the whole "up to humans" part is where things...
about 1 month ago • 4 min readSocial media isn't the boss of you! 😤
Incogni Research just published a study about social media, and the TL;DR? People are fucking tired of being on social media. Digital burnout is real, and it is VERY much here. I'm sure you're all feeling it, because I know I certainly am. Even as someone who works in social media, who loves the interactions these platforms allow, who values the communities these platforms can help build, there are days I seriously consider just throwing my phone into Puget Sound. Remember Instagram in 2011?...
about 2 months ago • 4 min readA Tale of Two Communities
I posted a series of memes last week that showcased my utter delight at the schadenfreude of Meta effectively being bullied into rolling back one of their new AI features just days after its launch. And yesterday, I had my branding photoshoot 📸 These two things seem completely unrelated, right? But I promise they're not. Let me explain: Social media that centers community can change lives. Last week, Meta (you know, the company that owns Facebook, Instagram, Threads, and WhatsApp) released a...
2 months ago • 4 min readOptimism is a non-negotiable ☀️
I'm not going to lie to y'all — I'm not really in an ✨expository✨ mood this week. I had some ideas of what to write about, but nothing really felt right. So instead, I'm going to take a moment to be vulnerable. I'm struggling right now. I know many of us are, especially those of us who are small business owners. Prices are going up. Budgets are tightening. Clients are walking away — not because they don't need our services, but because they are having to cut costs wherever they can. One of...
3 months ago • 3 min readWhat's beyond black holes?
I took my kids to the library last week because they wanted to learn more about the prizes for summer reading, but also because my 8-year-old had a very important question about space: What's beyond black holes? Now, this is a question that I'm not even sure NASA knows the answer to, but there's no harm in asking a librarian who can then recommend books or resources that might talk about black holes. ... At least, that's what I thought was going to happen. We went to the desk. We asked a...
3 months ago • 4 min readIt's okay to let people help you, actually 🧡
I'M FINALLY HOME. (Wait. What does that mean??) WELL. If you've been following along on Instagram / Threads, you know that I spent most of the last two weeks in the hospital with my Big Kid, who had to have multiple surgeries! They don't want me to disclose what kind of surgeries, but what I will say is that they are doing SO much better, we are FINALLY home, and I am really grateful we finally have some answers and — hopefully 🤞🏻 — a solution. BUT. That's not the point of this newsletter....
4 months ago • 4 min readDid you cut your hair?
I did it, y'all. I rebranded. With the help of the incredible Kristy Black (please check out their work if you're not already familar!), I've finally turned Golden Poppy Digital into something that looks and feels like what I want this business to be. And you, my lovely newsletter friends, get to be the first to see the new fonts, colors, and general ✨vibe✨ Please bear in mind that I'm writing this newsletter while on Day 4 of The Cold from Hell™️, so if any of this is nonsensical, we're...
4 months ago • 4 min readThe One with the Pivot
Happy Wednesday. "Wednesday? Doesn't this newsletter usually go out on Tuesdays?" It does. You're right. But this week, I just could not get it together. I plan to send these newsletters out on Tuesdays following the weekends my kids are with their dad. The logic there is like, obviously, if I'm not parenting all weekend, I should have time to sit down and write a newsletter, right? You don't need the boring details of my entire weekend, but on Saturday, I was on my way to, at, or heading...
4 months ago • 4 min read