βWe lost Dolly Parton last week, which truly feels like the end of an era. The woman was an icon, and for good reason: She was a once-in-a-lifetime talent (she claims to have written Jolene and I Will Always Love You on the SAME DAY); she was a genuinely good human (she founded the Imagination Library, which has gifted over 300 million books to children across five countries over the last three decades); AND she was a ton of fun (have you seen her wigs??). When you're that kind of rare triple threat, you deserve to be remembered with all the warmth and joy you brought into the world.
She was also both extremely wise and hilarious. Some of my favorite quotes of hers include:
βFind out who you are and do it on purpose.β
βPeople always ask me how long it takes to do my hair. I donβt know. Iβm never there.β
"I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not dumb β and I'm not blonde either."
But the quote of hers that's been resonating with me most deeply as I move solidly into my 40s, work to build a business, and try to keep up with my kids is this one: βDonβt get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.β
When I worked for other people, I felt like I was always being pushed to seek the next raise, the next promotion, the next opportunity. There is this uniquely American gamification of success where we're always supposed to want more, like life is a video game where we're always trying to get to the next level. But that was never what I wanted. (FWIW, I don't like video games either π) I just wanted a quiet, comfortable life. I knew I would have to work for money, but I was happy with work that challenged me as long as it paid the bills and didn't stress me out.
Thatβs why I started Golden Poppy Digital β because I believe that:
π§‘ Time is our only non-renewable resource. We deserve to spend it doing things we love, with the people we love. (For example: Booking a last minute trip to the midwest to watch women's baseball with your kids!) (No, I will NEVER stop talking about this.)
π§‘ Working for yourself allows you the freedom to choose new ways of being. Iβve never been interested in conforming to hustle culture, and working for ourselves allows us to reject it entirely. I'm not performing surgery. I'm not saving people from a fire. NONE OF THIS is that deep, or that urgent. (My ADHD's manufactured urgency doesn't count.)
π§‘ We can build a better future together. In order for us to keep moving forward, in business and in life, optimism (and joy!) is a necessity. That's why it is so important to take the time you need to do the things and be with the people you love. Life is so hard for so many of us right now, but we can make it bearable (enjoyable, even!) by intentionally seeking out positive and fun experiences.
Take it from me β and Dolly π We should all be building businesses that support our lives; not the other way around. Sometimes, that means outsourcing the parts of our work that don't bring us joy, or, worse, actively cause us stress. If social media is one of those stressors for you, I would love to support you and your small business. Keep reading to learn more about how we can work together, or just respond to this email and let's talk it out! You deserve to make a living that lets you LIVE, and Iβm here to help you do just that π§‘